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Worth the Work: Patience

Worth the Work · 2 min read

How are you with waiting? Does the thought of waiting more than half an hour for your JustEat order to arrive make your skin crawl? How about managing the anxious anticipation of a long-awaited yet still-too-far-away holiday? 

What about waiting months for a difficult situation to change? 

Patience seems to be undervalued in our need it now’ culture, and unfortunately a life changing moment can’t really be delivered tomorrow between the hours of 10 – 12. That’s why it’s vital to really work at becoming more patient in your relationship. 

This is a crucial aspect of maintaining a healthy and long-lasting bond with your partner. Practicing patience allows you to understand and appreciate your partner’s perspectives, emotions, and needs. It also helps you to communicate effectively and resolve conflicts in a calm and respectful manner.

Patience is not just about waiting for things to happen, but it is about learning to understand and accept the process of growth and change.

Being patient means that you are willing to compromise and find solutions that work for both partners. It requires a certain level of empathy, active listening, and the ability to put yourself in your partner’s shoes. By practicing patience, you can build and maintain a strong foundation of trust and respect in your relationship.

Pro tip: being patient with your partner starts with being patient with yourself. 

Patience in a relationship is a valuable skill that requires consistent effort and practice. So, take a deep breath, be patient, and let love guide your way.


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